s. n. jeff

Intimacy, pleasure and self improvement coach

Hello precious human, I’m Summer, and for the past three years I have been partnering with people like you on a quest to unlock something deeper in their lives.My journey into this role started with my own struggles—learning how to set boundaries, hold myself accountable, and grow through self-discipline and acceptance. I’ve faced the challenges of breaking old habits, overcoming self-doubt, and learning to trust myself, and now I’m passionate about helping others do the same.My approach is filled with empathy, compassion and a firm will. I aim to create a space where you can feel supported in your personal growth, whether you’re working through emotional barriers, sexual barriers or just need someone to hold you accountable to your goals. I believe everyone has the power to thrive with the right support, and I’m here to help you on your journey.

Intimacy and pleasure coaching | First step

Deepening the erotic connection with yourself awakens the part of you that enhances your sense of desire and intimacy in a way that feels authentic and fulfilling. This Intimacy and Pleasure Coaching Session is designed to guide you on a personalized journey toward understanding, embracing, and enhancing your experience of intimacy, whether physical, emotional, or both.What’s Included:
- 60-minute 1:1 Coaching Session: This personalized session will take place via video call or phone, providing a safe and confidential space for open discussion.
- Exploration of Your Desires and Boundaries: Together, we'll explore your unique desires and boundaries, helping you understand what feels good, what brings you joy, and where you may need clarity or guidance. Together, we will work towards identifying areas with blockages and how to remove them to enable feel deeper pleasure.- Practical Tools and Exercises: I’ll provide you with actionable exercises, mindfulness techniques, or rituals that you can incorporate into your personal or shared moments of intimacy, helping you cultivate deeper pleasure and connection.- Guided Reflection on Past Experiences: We’ll gently explore past experiences—both positive and challenging—so you can gain insight, release any shame, and move forward with confidence and openness.- Communication Skills for Connection: I’ll teach you how to articulate your needs and desires with clarity and confidence, fostering greater intimacy and understanding in your relationships.- Tailored Advice on Enhancing Pleasure: Whether it’s in the realm of self-exploration, partnered pleasure, or emotional connection, I’ll offer guidance tailored to your specific goals, challenges, and curiosities.- Who is This For?
- Individuals looking to deepen their intimate connection.
- Anyone seeking to explore new facets of their pleasure or overcome obstacles to experiencing it fully.
- Those interested in building confidence in communicating desires and boundaries in a loving and respectful way.
After the Session:
You’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of your intimate self, practical tools to nurture your pleasure, and the confidence to communicate and explore in a way that feels true to you. You’ll also receive a follow-up email summarizing key takeaways and exercises to continue your growth after the session.
Looking forward to working with you.


Intimacy, self development, and accountabily coaching

This a more expansive program for those who wish to truly transform their life, embrace their desires, and feel more connected to themselves on a micro level.The Program is designed to give you daily guidance, ongoing support, and practical tools to break through barriers and bring more joy, connection, and pleasure into your life. Whether you're seeking a deeper emotional bond, a more fulfilling physical connection, or simply want to explore your kinky side, this program offers a safe, personalized space to grow.Four 60-Minute 1:1 Coaching Sessions (Weekly)
- Each week, we’ll dive deep into your personal goals, challenges, and desires. These tailored sessions are designed to help you create lasting changes in your intimate life, whether through emotional intimacy, pleasure enhancement, or kinky exploration.
Daily Communication and Accountability
- I will be your daily guide, holding you accountable to your goals and keeping you focused on pleasure, connection, and growth. Whether you need encouragement, feedback, or a reminder to stay on track.
Personalized Intimacy and Pleasure Plan
- After our first session, you’ll receive a detailed, customized plan that includes tailored exercises, rituals, and practices designed to help you achieve your intimacy and pleasure goals. This plan will evolve as we work together, ensuring it’s always aligned with your needs.
Exploration of Desires, Boundaries, and Kinks
- We’ll explore your personal desires and boundaries. Whether you’re already part of a D/s dynamic or curious about introducing kink into your life, we’ll create a safe, consensual space for exploration.
Effective Communication Strategies
- You’ll learn how to express your desires and boundaries with clarity and confidence, improving your connection with yourself and others. We’ll work on communication techniques to enhance trust, intimacy, and pleasure in your relationships, whether vanilla or kinky.
Daily Pleasure and Accountability Rituals
- I’ll guide you in creating daily rituals focused on pleasure, self-care, or connection with your partner. These rituals will help you stay grounded, intentional, and in tune with your desires, while also building accountability to your goals.
Unlimited Email and Text Support
- In addition to our daily check-ins, you’ll have unlimited access to me via email or text. Whether you need advice, have a question, or want to celebrate a win, I’ll be there for you throughout the month to provide ongoing guidance and support.
Who is This For?
- Individuals or couples seeking deeper emotional and physical intimacy.
- Those wanting to explore and expand their pleasure, including through kink or BDSM dynamics.
- Anyone ready to work on their communication skills around desires and boundaries.
- Submissives or those curious about kinky dynamics who want gentle, personalized guidance and accountability.
What You’ll Walk Away With:
- A deeper connection to your own desires and a greater understanding of your boundaries.
- Practical tools to enhance both emotional and physical intimacy in your relationships.
- Confidence in communicating your needs and desires, in both vanilla and kinky dynamics.
- A personalized, evolving plan to keep you growing long after the program ends.
- A feeling of daily support and accountability, helping you stay on track with your goals and pleasures.
Kindly note I can only take two clients a month to allow me perform at an optimal degree as a guide. This is a more intense program. Please apply, and if I believe we are compatible for this deeper exploration, you will receive an email.